Monday, September 30, 2013

In the battle of "us against them", who are the real losers?

There’s an infection going around my workplace.  It’s not the typical cold that starts appearing and spreading at this point of the year.  It’s not a flu that results in people not being able to do their job.  It’s an attitude….an “us against them” attitude.  Unfortunately, in this battle, it ultimately is not the combatants that win or lose, it’s people who don’t have a dog in the fight. A good rule to follow is that you don’t make children deal with adult issues, but that is exactly what is happening.  Children are being used as pawns in a fight that is taking place between adults.  They are caught in the middle.  Over the past couple of weeks, some of the teachers in our district have chosen to make a statement by strictly adhering to contractual hours.  This means that they stand outside of the building until five minute before the first bell and leave twenty minutes after the last bell rings.  That is certainly their right and I can understand where they are coming from.  In addition, information has been given to students that is incomplete and they are being encouraged to voice their opinions based on those “facts”.  In the past week, I have watched as a student asked a teacher for help, but was told “I won’t help you until my contract time starts.”  I heard a student’s frustration through tears as they told me that they needed help on an assignment, but was refused because she approached the teacher before five minutes before the bell.  I sat with a student as they were given a clearer picture of the adult situation and saw the look in their eyes as they realized that they had been used and reevaluated their involvement in the situation. Had they not been given the clearer picture, it could have very negatively impacted their future leadership roles. 

So here I am…..watching people pick sides. I’m disappointed that it has been reduced to personal attacks against those they consider the enemy and making children the real losers in the battle.